I work with kids of all ages, learning disabled and not. The main thing is, they DON'T know better, unless they have been TAUGHT to know better. If the parents lack discipline, than the child struggles with what is right/wrong. This is very tragic, and I am so sad for you to have to go through this.
I absolutely agree 100% with the person who said to sit the kids down and explain to them the rules with animals. If the child is not experienced with animals, then they're probably not experienced with how to treat them. I am very careful with Lola when I am around children. I am very strict with the kids, because I know the damage they can do (by accident), on such a little creature.
I don't think this incident is anyone's fault. However, it's possibly more of a fault towards the parents of the child, for not explaining how to treat animals. I think you should DEFINITELY call the kids parents, and explain what happened. They might even offer to pay the bills?? I would, if it were my child, but you never know with parents these days. I definitely wouldn't allow the child near the dog again, even if you decide to babysit him again. I probably couldn't babysit him again though, cuz of resentment, but that's not a good thing to have.
I do wish the best for you and you're little one!! Please keep us updated with what happens. You and your little one are in my thoughts/prayers. Unfortunately, with every accident, there is a lesson to be learned. Not just for you, but for the child as well. I am so sorry, and I hope he gets better soon!!! |