 I feel your pain
I just lost my precious Smokey one week ago today, and I am still devastated. I too feel the guilt of knowing his death could have been prevented by me. It is a very difficult process. I have only been on this site for two day's and I have found comfort here knowing that others understand what I am going through. I thought that I was all alone and noone understood my pain. Our fur babies are exactly that , our babies. As I have told so many people before me, and now I have to believe when I say, that time will heal our wounds. You cry, you do whatever you need to do to mourn. Everyone is different, you will have good days and bad days, but I have found that the more you write about your baby, the comforting it is to your soul. Hold on to the love that you had for your baby, as will I. And when it is time, we will move on, but only in our time.
Read the ther blogs, I have found comfort in reading other peoples RIP, it helps to write to people who understand your pain. |