I say give him 1 chance. Sit down and have a talk about how he needs to pretty much do everything around the house since he has no job. Cooking, cleaning, laundry all needs to be done by him because now you are working 2 jobs and have school. If he can't take care of things now, what do you think will happen when children are born? You need an equal not someone bringing you down. We women seem to think what will I do without_____? Well news flash you are doing just fine with him doing nothing, imagine how much easier it will be without him? Don't get me wrong relationships are good and I love to see them but they have to be 50/50, and with someone you know can carry things if something were to happen with you. Is he that someone? |