Okay I'm goign to give you advice as if you were my friend and I knew you personally. I'm a straight shooter so this is what I'd say...
Your girl needs all the help she can get. I mean, I didn't know anything about dogs and don't say now that I do, but I do a lot of research and reading to find out what I need to know. Well, you know that your friend hasn't done any research and is going to need a lot of help. Your help. Reach out to her and go visit her puppy. Give her some kind advice if she needs it. Don't judge her. She made a mistake and I'm sure that on some level she realizes that. But right now she really needs your support.
So what I'm saying is you should be glad she didn't take one of your puppies since she has no idea how to care for a dog. But since she has a dog you can work as her resource for making sure that the little girl is raised properly.
If you go with her non judgmentally then she would hopefully accept help. If she doesn't, it's not your problem. Continue your friendship the way it had been, but don't mention the dog.
It's only a problem if you let it be. |