Awww...we all know you meant the best for everyone and esp your pups. I think the text idea is great. I have come to witness that MANY dog owners know squat about properly caring for an animal. I always find myself getting on my soap box about things I learn on here. Some people are interested and some are not. I can honestly say that I did not know much until coming across YT (thank goodness!) Let her know you would like to come see her pup. She may be a friend you need in the future as well, just like she needs you right now (even if she is not admitting it and contacting you.) Sounds like an impulse buy, but we can't expect everyone to have common sense, sometimes not even friends!!