I think you were completely right for not letting her puppy come over. However, I have a feeling that your email about impulse buying and not doing what you said was probably pretty harsh. Like you said, she's a first time dog owner and got excited and DID impulse buy. But it probably really hurt her feelings for you to be hard on her. I don't think it's fair to assume she'll be "over the excitement of a puppy". We were all first time owners at one point... and we didn't get over the excitement.
I would email her and apologize for being a little harsh about her decision to get the pug. Tell her you'd love to come over and meet her baby, but that you stand firm on not allowing the pug to come to your house. She could probably use a lot of pointer from you since she's a first time puppy owner and trying to train the little guy. |