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Originally Posted by DianaB  If you want to keep this girl as a friend why don't you go to her house and see the puppy? Maybe you could give her a few hints about how to care for her little one. I'm sure that she probably has lots of questions. Then you can wash up and change clothes when you get back home to your own little ones. |
I completely agree....if this girl is a good friend to you....then protecting your babies is priority...but then secondly I don't see why you didn't offer to go to her house....That probably wouldn't have hurt her feelings as much.....had you said something like that....then again..maybe you did...and you just neglected to mention that part..
I know ALOT of people mean well here on YT.....but sometimes TACT is necessary when trying to help others...the fact is that your friend ALREADY got the pug...so your "Speech about proper puppy purchasing" was only a slap in the face...if you didn't care much for her friendship than maybe what you did was percectly aceptable...but in the real world even BEST friends need to be loving with each other....while saying what they mean...Good luck!