seems to me that you both should be thinking what would be the best for your wee baby, your feelings have to be put on back burner, and reading what you do for the little one it is better for her to stay with you, less trauma, because she will know that changes have been made so don't make it hard on her. The feelings of you baby must come first, so expalain this to bf. he should understand if he loves her he will leave her where she is settled.
Good luck.
Jac and jimi Hart
