I know what you mean!
I took Abby to be groomed and maybe 1/2 hour after i got her home, she had her bow out.

The hair on the top of her head is much thinner than my other 2 where. I have tried to put a barret in her hair and one shake of her head and it's out. I need to find some that are good and will stay in. I really am not fond of the bands. Anyone have any ideas?