The results of the urinalysis came back and there were traces of one of the date-rape drugs in her system, even after 4 days. She doesn't want to go to the police because pressing charges would cause several people to lose their jobs and these people desperately need their jobs. This is a small town and jobs are non-existant at the moment, so people need to hold on to what they've got. Besides, there's no way to prove it was him - or any others that may have been involved. And, to top it off, the police dept. in this town leaves alot to be desired. The sheriff is a friend(not close) and I don't have alot of faith in anything coming of it. She just wants to get past it and going thru pressing charges would drag it out forever. She's doing ok, considering, but, like she says, having no memory of what happened helps. She says she's learned her lesson and will never get into a situation like that without having a "buddy" so they can watch out for each other. Unfortunatley, not drinking isn't a total solution because it can be put into soda's. She is strong, and, in time, will be ok. She does have some friends who can be trusted and can see her for who she is, not for the boobs she has. Thank you for all your prayers. It means so much to us. |