OMG!!! After reading your post I immediatly stopped and said a prayer for not only your daughter but for you as well! You both need it. I wish you both the very strongest of guardian angels too!!
I agree with what everyone else said about the counceling too! She has been hurt way more than anyone should have to hurt, and she might bottle up her thoughts and emotions....I did the same after a run of horrible incidents. It made me a very angry and pessimistic (sp?) person for awhile. As much as I hated to admit it at the time, talking to someone helped a lot. Many, many thoughts and prayers to you both.