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Old 02-01-2009, 05:02 PM   #143
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Originally Posted by spr377 View Post
You are right about it being seriously tight quarters!

If Social Services was doing a home visit for a potential Foster home, three bedrooms would not have been deemed adequate for the people in the house......let alone eight more!! But, I'm sure they will be getting all kinds of help! I feel sorry for ALL the children, what kind of chance for a "normal" existence do they have?

Don't worry as the kids get older they will find more and more excuses to hang at their friends house. You have to wonder as well how well they will do emotionally. It's hard to be a child that is just part of a crowd. How do you get the indiviudal time with your parents to develop your own personality and figure out who your gonna be when you grow up. I know that ideally children can do well in a large family but you have to wonder when they are in a family that is so large...you have to feel like you fall into the cracks of things.
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