[Bizzymammabee]

It's great you have chosen to have your six and possibly more with your spouse. Your fortunate that you are able to be a stay at home mom and raise your children. Would you have been able to have and raise six and then fourteen children on your own ...no I don't think so. Would you have been able to have six if you hadn't been an at home mom. Can you imagine all the endless work you do in a day with your children and having to add a full time job to that to care for them. So in this economy your sitution is very fortunate. I do not know what your husband does for a living nor what you household situation is (your business not mine) but could you sustain such a large household if your husband were to become ill, laid off or incapacitated in any way. I think unless your well set that is a hard thing to accomplish. So in this lady's case where there seems to be no visible means of support and she is a student there is something wrong.