Boy, you got that one right.!!
I , too, have given up. I have two convertible cars. Sold one of them because I can't take the pups with me. The other car is a classic-can't and won't sell it.
Sleeping over places is hard, vacations are hard. However, I found a wonderful woman that loves my two yorkies and will take them if I need to go somewhere.
My yorkies own me.