Congrats on your new little girl! I have been out of it for a while & missed the fact that you were getting another one! It took ours a while to start getting use to each other - Kodah was a little snob to Stormy when we first brought Stormy home. If Stormy tried to get in the same bed with her, Kodah would just get up & move. I felt sorry for Stormy the first week - not Kodah -- she knew who was boss & was determined to keep it that way!
They get along great now - & it is much easier having two to play with each other than occupy just one!
As far as having your hands full with a girl - well, that's true, I think, no matter what species you are dealing with!! heehee