[Ashley V]

My hubby and I met at my friend's 16th birthday party. He was dating a girl at the time that I went to school with and he went to a private Christian school. This girl was always kind of a... not so good girl... and I had just broken up with my boyfriend and I remember thinking to myself that he was hot and "how can she get such a good guy?" cause he was being so gentle and loving with her. Flash forward a year - he went on and joined the national guard and she cheated on him with both genders while he was in basic. They broke up because of this and we ran into each other at a local band concert and hung out for awhile. I ended up dating this guy within a couple weeks after our run in and we lost contact again. Flash forward another year - Boyfriend and I broke up and I was DEVASTATED. Adam had been reading some of my blogs on myspace and knew that I was hurting so he decided just to send me a friendly IM. We talked for awhile and I dated this other guy for about a month, but broke up with him when I found out he was doing drugs. Adam then asks me if I would like to go out with him, as friends and friends only. I said okay and out we went. He took me to a "high society" outside mall in a near by county and we ate at Uno's, then went to the movies to see Hills Have Eyes or some stupid thing like that, and then went to a coffee shop where they gave you a mini fire pit and you could make s'mores (mmm). While we were at the movies though, something happened. I always have a tendency to lean towards my right when I'm sitting around and he was sitting on my right, so he took that as me trying to get close to him and put his arm around me. It felt so right that I leaned in some more and laid my head on his chest. It was so perfect. Seven months later, we were married :-) This coming November we will have been married 3 years and I wouldn't change a thing. People thought I was crazy for getting married at 19, but I love my life and all the problems that come with it!