I loved that movie! Your story sounds so much like mine. Did you think you had lost your mind at first? My guy found me at a singles dating site 12 days after I signed up, there was no hesitating to make contact. He is 7000 miles away right now, the time difference is about 12 hours so I am getting up as he is going to bed. It is wonderful to get up in the morning and find a poem from him in my email in-box. I hope that soon I will be able to post an answer in my own thread. All I can say is that he removed his profile from the singles dating site!