Why don't you meet him first. Make sure it's in a public place. If you still have the same feelings I'd be honest with him about your feelings (maybe not about the intellectual thing), and tell him you'll be there for him to talk with, but you just can't see yourself being a mom. Maybe on the second date if you want to you can do something with him and his daughter, and see how you feel after that. It's way to soon to move in together, or to get serious.
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