thank you for comparing it to skin kids, because i feel less like a crazy person now
actually the first time i took milu to the groomers, i let them take her to the back to wash her. they wouldn't let me follow them, and i had to stay in the main room, i totally had separation anxiety
people in the front room kept asking me if i was ok. lol
i peeked in the backroom, and i saw the way that they were handling milu which made me angry. they kept pushing her away, because she wanted to be held by the groomer because she was afraid of the hair dryer they were using on her. but the groomer just kept pushing her away and pulling on the strap thingy, so it looked like she was dangling from it a bit.(cause she is little and skinny)
it was awful
so i never want to have her out of my sight again if i can help it!!!!
i did find another groomer that i feel better with, but i still don't want to let milu out of my sight!!!