I just dug myself out of some Eastern Washington Snow and am drinking wine... so I thought I'd get on YT... Your Post caught my eye.
So let me let it fly, sista!!!
Ok.. really, let me think. I'm 46 (soon to be 47 in Jan) but I look younger most days ... so I'm told. Now my husband is also 46 but is mistaken for 28, so that really chaps my hiney. LOL. He has a baby face.
Ok. I haven't dated in 10 years. Thank God. So I have no ideas. But I can tell you my X-Boss is my age and met a man online who is older than her and I think he looks much younger. So I guess it just depends. But if I was you, and if I looked young like I do (I don't know how you look), I'd be looking for upper 30's to early 40's at best.
Ok, so theres my wine soaked, breaking from the snow shoveling, ibuprofen soaked opinion. LOL (ibuprofen cuz my muscles are sore from shoveling out).