Ok. I bought a black scarf. Now I'll go to a website someone else on here sent me and follow the instructions on there how to tie it. If it doesn't look good, it's ok.. I did not spend much on it.
Or I'll just wear my short Pearls and be proud of my slightly wrinkly "turkey neck!"...
Thanks you guys.
PS: yes, that dress IS pretty!! my jacket & top look similar. the top has a drapey low neckline.