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shazier2000 · 12-06-2008, 04:48 PM

[quote=dcapper;2339944]Again I want to thank everyone on YT for the well wishes. I am struggling so hard to deal with the loss of Toby. Everything is so empty in my life. I have everything I could ever want, but one thing. That hole left is so big I don't know if I can ever fill it. So I just wanted to upload my favorite pics of Toby.

RIP Toby
17 years of you can never be replaced.[/quote

Hi, I am new to YT and came here last mth looking for info on enlarged heart but didnt post. MY baby was also called toby and i feel so sad and sorry for you. My toby was only 12 and i was so desperate to try and save him, but after the vet told me, he only managed to carry on for just over 2 wks, he didnt respond to treatment, there was nothng more they could do. I had to have him put to sleep, he was suffering and now im suffering with the guilt. Like you I am devasted it all happend last mth and was so sudden,i want to give you a very big hug (........hug.........) I have however got 2 more pups, i only went out for 1 and couldnt pick between the 2 oh im so soft. I can say it has helped me in the way that, i am not sat dwelling and crying all day long, the pups dont allow me to, but they will never replace him, you cant replace a pet you have lost,never ever will i forget toby,and nor will you. We will think about the happy times we shared when the pain starts to ease and, it is a time thing.
i havent forgotten my pets that have past away, they will always be in my heart and i will always have moments where i will get tearful. I cant talk about him yet without breaking down but, it is getting a little easier especally during the day with the new pups. I have something eles to focus on. Getting another pet isnt for everyone straight away but for me, it helps and is something ive always done. I do normally give myself a little bit more time than i have this time though, but i wouldnt part with them now for the world and there wearing me out lol I also have a 16yr poodle that i adopted and I another yorkie called pip who was brought up with toby, they were never apart,she really grieved badly to. She is now playing with the pups and bossing them around, she was second in line toby was the boss. I am thinking about you and feel your pain,I really am so sorry for your loss.x

12-06-2008, 04:48 PM	#28
shazier2000 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: united kingdom Posts: 8	toby [quote=dcapper;2339944]Again I want to thank everyone on YT for the well wishes. I am struggling so hard to deal with the loss of Toby. Everything is so empty in my life. I have everything I could ever want, but one thing. That hole left is so big I don't know if I can ever fill it. So I just wanted to upload my favorite pics of Toby. RIP Toby 17 years of you can never be replaced.[/quote Hi, I am new to YT and came here last mth looking for info on enlarged heart but didnt post. MY baby was also called toby and i feel so sad and sorry for you. My toby was only 12 and i was so desperate to try and save him, but after the vet told me, he only managed to carry on for just over 2 wks, he didnt respond to treatment, there was nothng more they could do. I had to have him put to sleep, he was suffering and now im suffering with the guilt. Like you I am devasted it all happend last mth and was so sudden,i want to give you a very big hug (........hug.........) I have however got 2 more pups, i only went out for 1 and couldnt pick between the 2 oh im so soft. I can say it has helped me in the way that, i am not sat dwelling and crying all day long, the pups dont allow me to, but they will never replace him, you cant replace a pet you have lost,never ever will i forget toby,and nor will you. We will think about the happy times we shared when the pain starts to ease and, it is a time thing. i havent forgotten my pets that have past away, they will always be in my heart and i will always have moments where i will get tearful. I cant talk about him yet without breaking down but, it is getting a little easier especally during the day with the new pups. I have something eles to focus on. Getting another pet isnt for everyone straight away but for me, it helps and is something ive always done. I do normally give myself a little bit more time than i have this time though, but i wouldnt part with them now for the world and there wearing me out lol I also have a 16yr poodle that i adopted and I another yorkie called pip who was brought up with toby, they were never apart,she really grieved badly to. She is now playing with the pups and bossing them around, she was second in line toby was the boss. I am thinking about you and feel your pain,I really am so sorry for your loss.x