ok, who is sally? lol

i am really confused by the way the post was written.
i don't really understand what the question is and why you are writing in the 3rd person?
'let's say sally'...
is this like an embarrassing question that you pretend is happening to someone else or am i completely missing something?
i am sorry, i just see people posting on this thread, and i feel strange that i am the only person that's totally not understanding what you are saying. i would like to help if i can offer you some suggestions, but i do not understand your question.

lol. sorry.