Follow your heart, go with the new pup that you say you LOVE, and not with the one you "like" and have to learn to love.
It is so hard to pick from pictures alone. Imagine how uncomfortable those puppies are being dressed up and posed. But, based on the pics alone I'd be choosing the new pup. I kinda think Lola's ears appear too wide-set for my preference, and she is a bit awkward looking at an age when most puppies are at their cutest.
Now about the breeder, how did you find her, and are you comfortable that she is producing healthy puppies? That is much more important than looks. I also hate to think of a "too young" puppy being shipped, with weather being what it is now. Also, have you researched hypoglycemia in little puppies?
Maybe the "sign" you need to see is that after losing out on 2 and maybe 3 pups from this breeder, just maybe you should be looking for a puppy closer to where you live so you can SEE it & play with it. Just my thoughts
