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Originally Posted by princess chloe  Whoa,he sounds like my X! The jealousy anyway! I would get accused of "doing everyone"!!!!! Even pregnant,,my Dr.,,,,the ultrasound guy,,,whoever walked by me! That was really wearing on me!! After 3 kids and10 years,,I was so over it ! Needles to say I left. I really hope things can work out for you,,just don't compromise your self respect or self worth,,,you have to realize that your worth more.And I hear you saying I do this for him and I do that,,,what does he do? Just dont lose yourself in a relationship,if you always try pleasing someone else,,the only one that isn't pleased is you!! Good Luck |
Oh girl, I hear you there. I was engaged to this guy who was probably the most abusive (mental) that I would ever encounter. I accused me of sleeping with ANYONE. He would get in fights with me so he could go out, wouldn't come home, "worked" all the time, and would turn his phone off. What the hell was I thinking????? He bought me a 2 karat engagement ring, not because he loved me, but because he wanted "everyone to know" I was taken. After several BAD weeks, I left. I had to move back in with my parents, but I lived and met my WONDERFUL husband three months later. We were married a year after that...
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Originally Posted by abaddon248 he doesnt do anything honestly. When im sick he gives me the excuse he cant sympathize because he has asthma and it is way worse than what im going through. I fell in love with a different guy. I dont know what it is that he has going in his head but it needs to stop. He has changed for me and it has become great and then its just another fall out. we are on the right track right now and hopefully there will be no fights.
I just find it funny that he is insecure that im doing everyone or anything ! and his reason is because he doesnt please me ?!. I'm like maybe if you did regularly you wouldnt have those thoughts. ( I have never cheated and never will, I dont care if its months and months of dry spells I will never do that to him ) |
And you, missy, you really need to sit down and re-evaluate. I know you love him, but he can't love you until he loves himself. This sounds much more serious than it originally did. He really needs to consider counseling and meeting with a doctor and getting a plan to become healthy.