Mindie, they are really good people. They are from out of state, and just have the one child. We don't have any kids, and we really enjoy her daughter. Her daughter asked us to come to her party, not knowing her Mom had already asked us, she wanted my big hubby watching the dance floor
Her Mother has had a change of heart. This is the e-mail I just received, I blanked out the names, other than ours (but notice she wants ME to make an appt for her):
Amy-No, I do not think you are a monster! I think you and Jimmy have done for ****far and beyond what she would have done for you or me or ****. She has proved that to all of us. Tuff Love is not EZ. You are right that she needs to sit and realize what she has done to herself, not what she thinks we do not do for her. She does not want us talking or comparing notes, if she did not want to work us against each other she would have never said that. So yes, she is still trying to control us instead of herself. From what I can tell her neurotransmitters are not hitting properly yet, her thinking is still messed up. That is something that just takes time and therapy.
Does she get professional counseling?
I agree that everything you and Jimmy have done up to this point has been in the best interest for ****, she is ill and has brought this illness on herself. She will have to fight hard to become well and I don’t know if she herself realizes that, but I do. I do not feel she is a throw away person yet and only time will tell. I would like to have a one on one visit with her counselor to ask question, but that would need to be on a Sunday. Can you find out for me?
Love you (yall) Thankx for all you have done,