I am sorry you are having to deal with so much. You have been a wondeful friend and while she has so many issues you can ony do so much for someone. they have to help themselves. You could end of destroying your marriage and more friendships. Maybe in a session with her and the counselor you can tell her you will be there for her but set some rules when she visits etc. Hopefully one day when she works through her problems she will see who was there for her. Good luck you sound like a very special person. |