I'm so sorry you are having this experience. Trust me when I say that I know how hard it is to watch someone you love be self destructive. BUT you can't sacrifice your healthy relationships for 1 thats unhealty.
I can honestly say that experience has taught me that if you don't expect much from people then that's what you'll get. She thinks she can get away with murder because you've let her. You're going to have to set some standards (that keep you emotionally healthy) and if she doesn't care enough to meet them, then she'll just have to find someone else to manipulate.
__________________  Misty & Jamie
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