[Xaleia]

I agree as I've been thru all but the loss of my job and car. Also it is agreed that right now your Mom needs your support, love and unconditional acceptance. With that being said,

This is your home and YOUR babies. She either accepts that or she would have to find other accommadations.

I know if I had to accept the charity of ANYONE.. my children included, that whatever their lifestyle is, I'd better be willing to accept it or find another place.

I would hate to live with one of my sons as I don't think they keep their house clean enough...etc..let the dogs come in with muddy feet on their furniture..etc.
With that being said, I'd better be willing to accept that, if they found it in their heart to offer me a home.
Know what I mean?

You are offering your mom your heart and your home, and you are offering her the chance to have much unconditional love from your babies. She better be nice and no ACCIDENTS as one poster stated. It just cannot happen!