Wow, thanks so much Kristy - that is great advice.  I'm copying everything into an e-mail and sending it to Dave at work (he's a closet Yorkie Talker now))
 
I really appreciate your thoughts, I think that the hugging Dave thing would be a great thing to try - after 6 1/2 years of marriage we aren't as affectionate as we could be (didn't even think to be while on the floor with Tia!) 
Also, yes, giving him something that I don't DO with her sounds brilliant as well.  I think I'll make him in charge of greenies since they only get those at night anyway! 

  Again, thanks SO much!! 
