I think you're all right here. Although my husband will kill me for telling anyone this ..
he really does feel badly that she isn't all about him like Sandy is. This morning after weewee time Tia had her play time on the floor, with
me. So, that's probably something I could really work on, involving my husband in the play/activities with me and Tia.
I will try to get him more involved in other "fun" stuff too
Thanks SO much for the input guys!!