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					Originally Posted by phfgkl  I look on calorie king online, it's got all the calories, fat grams, etc on there for all the fast food restaurants, and a lot of restaurants like applebees, etcAnd I also agree on the weight thing. I have a son that is big and a daughter that is big, and it is very hard for some people to lose weight, myself included. I never say anything about anyones weight whether too thin or too big, as no one is perfect
 And, also, you can count calories and not just be on weight watchers..I'm not on weight watchers,  but, I try and count calories
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  I don't usually respond to stuff like this, but it just struck a nerve.  My husband is the youngest of seven children...  5 boys...all of them are tall and rail-thin.  Picture perfect.  My husband is 5'9" and his buff, muscular hunky bod has turned a little flabby (he needs to lose about 40 lbs)...all of his brothers call him "fat boy", and have something negative to say at every family meal we have.   This is seriously a class issue. 
 Just this weekend I went off on his brother and told him that I got the best lookin brother, and the better man, chubby or not.  I made some other choice comments too.  Husband was mortified, but I told him it had been brewing FOR YEARS.