Anger is good focused in the right direction. I have read as many of the threads as I could (not very many) they upset me so much. I feel horrible for Bobo. The only good thing is out of this situation is that people now are more aware that these horrible things do happen even after some one has had a baby for six years. I don't claim to know or understand it.
The worst for us is that it is now causing people here to argue over what is right or wrong. We are all entitle to our opinions. I will not give mine either way. The only thing I will say is that I feel so badly for the little baby who had to suffer.
I do not think that Bobo would want any of us to fight. If he was anything like my three babies. It would freak them out. They don't like tension at all and they know. The point I am trying to make (probably doing very badly at it). We should not argue over what we think should or should not happen. Or could have happened. We should pull together sending our prayers and support for the little guy and the others that will be in simiular situations as this.
My suggestion is we all say a prayer for Bobo.
Sorry if I upset anyone that was truly not my intent. I just do not think that we should fight over something as horbile as a little babies torcher and death. This is when we need to ALL pull together for a worthy cause. Like supporting our local shelters or emegency animal clinics. Anger is good focused in the right direction. But, in this situation, not at each other.
Again, I am sorry if I upset anyone.
Laura |