Thank you for all of the comments. I agree that if I would keep busy that may help too. I am 24, 5'4. My 4 year old just started pre-k and I pretty much just hang out with Tiff and wait to go pick him up from school. I did have a part time job that I liked but didn't have anyone to help me pick him up from school while I was at work. I do exercise every morning after I drop him off. Believe it or not, posting this has made me feel better. Its nice to be able to say it and have people understand.
On another note, I would love for my husband to think that I look beautiful no matter what, but thats just not the case with him. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for your encouragement.