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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae  you are going to get over it.. we all do.. its gonna take alittle time though.
divorce is like a death and it destroys you.... but your doing just fine.
you have me to cry on if you need ok... i will cry with you, i feel your pain,
i know your pain... the cool thing is, im friendly with my x now and im happy
and he isnt ha ha... he regret the decision he made and its too bad and alittle too late... you will find the man of your dreams someday, just dont look for it, for it will happen when the time is right... for now, just concentrate on
you and your babies and thats all you need at this time... |
It does feel a lot like a death...so true. And while I don't know if he regrets it already, while I got a job and an apartment - he is living on his grandma's couch!!! I hope someday we can be friendly, if only because he truly was my best friend...But after the pain and hurt and abandonment, I know right now is not the time to reach out - though I am totally worried about him. He made this decision quickly and hastily and has a massive alcohol/ drug problem and is not sober. I know he sounds like such a loser - he probably is - but love isn't logical now is it?
I do hope someday I am in a place to even consider starting a family - but now its the furthest thing from my mind. I had so many hopes and dreams for our future together that I have to mourn for.