I have a soft playpen next to our bed, but they sleep with us most of the time, Shayna and Phoebe are great but Melody she starting getting up in the middle of the night to kiss hubby

and very early in the morning too, she will not stop, I put them in their pen again and after couple nights hubby want them back in the bed

so will see how long this is going to last

. Mine use the pads so is easy, for us they will go outside too, if I take them but they are use to pads, I think yorkidaze give you a good advice, she will not like it at first but she will get use to it. I hope