You might have to put her in her crate in your daughters room with the door partially shut and your door shut with your 2 other boys with you. If she does bark, hopefully the boys won't hear it, but hopefully with your daughter there she won't bark because she won't be alone. If that does not work, then maybe leave her downstairs in a bathroom or the kitchen in her crate. I know it sounds horrible, but thats no fun for you or for her to be woken up so many times! Good Luck!