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Grizzley Bear · 09-02-2008, 01:36 PM

I sure know how you feel. My heart goes out to you and everybody for their losses. My world came to a halt when Grizzley Bear left me on 10-10-07. I cry a lot and have did everything I can to make it a better world. I still have days when I am feeling the pressure of the loss and I take a day off. One being today. The hardest time for me has been the Holidays. Each one. I would always take him to his Grandparents house. I have his picture all over my home and at work. Even have a tattoo of him on my left shoulder as close to the my heart as I can get. For he is my Heart and Soul.I miss him. Sometimes I find myself getting lost in the memories.Getting those kisses and the smiles he would give, the greetings at the door, taking the long walks, giving the baths,playing for days, and most of all the bond we shared. It was so unconditional. The love. I know in my heart I will never have a bond like that again.Never took it for granted and wanted it to be 4ever. I thank the lord above for giving me the opportunity to have my little Grizzley Bear. I learned so much from that little guy. I agree with time. Time is either you friend or your enemy. I am in limbo still after almost 11 months. I do thank my family,friends and YT for sharing their babies from the bottom of my heart and for being there when I need comfort.I can honestly say without them. I can't imagine where I would be. I remember someone telling me to take baby steps and to remember how fortunate I was to be his Mom. I always keep that in the back of my mind. Teddy was blessed to have you.

Hugs,
Mary

09-02-2008, 01:36 PM	#12
Grizzley Bear MY HEART AND SOUL Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Sacramento Posts: 566	I sure know how you feel. My heart goes out to you and everybody for their losses. My world came to a halt when Grizzley Bear left me on 10-10-07. I cry a lot and have did everything I can to make it a better world. I still have days when I am feeling the pressure of the loss and I take a day off. One being today. The hardest time for me has been the Holidays. Each one. I would always take him to his Grandparents house. I have his picture all over my home and at work. Even have a tattoo of him on my left shoulder as close to the my heart as I can get. For he is my Heart and Soul.I miss him. Sometimes I find myself getting lost in the memories.Getting those kisses and the smiles he would give, the greetings at the door, taking the long walks, giving the baths,playing for days, and most of all the bond we shared. It was so unconditional. The love. I know in my heart I will never have a bond like that again.Never took it for granted and wanted it to be 4ever. I thank the lord above for giving me the opportunity to have my little Grizzley Bear. I learned so much from that little guy. I agree with time. Time is either you friend or your enemy. I am in limbo still after almost 11 months. I do thank my family,friends and YT for sharing their babies from the bottom of my heart and for being there when I need comfort.I can honestly say without them. I can't imagine where I would be. I remember someone telling me to take baby steps and to remember how fortunate I was to be his Mom. I always keep that in the back of my mind. Teddy was blessed to have you. Hugs, Mary __________________ A + = My Grizzley Bear 10/12/95 to 10/10/2007: