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Originally Posted by ging4444  I lost my beloved little Teddy in April and am having such a hard time without him. I have loved all my animals but never have I had a bond like the one I had with him. I just adored him, I would have done anything to save him. I have done a few things that are helping me with my grief and I was wondering if anyone else has found anything helpful. First of all I printed every picture I had of him and made a special album with poems and other momentos. I also took all his pictures and made a movie with music that I chose. I have spent so many hours on the movie making sure it was perfect. I thankfully have Teddy's ashes but they were in a plain wooden urn. I found a person on ebay who makes custom wooden urns with pictures engraved on black marble and whatever sayings you want to put on there so now his urn is so special. She also made me a necklace that has his picture engraved on a black heart stone that I am going to hang in my car. I have had numerous pictures of him made that I hung up all over the house. Some days they are what gets me through and some days it hurts too much to look at them. I also have a lock of his hair in a locket that I wear all the time. Are there any things that have helped you to deal with your grief? I am so sorry for everyone's loss. |
I too have my baby's ashes in a special urn with her name and lock of hair. She went to heaven June 22, 2008. For me, it has been harder to see her ashes everyday. She is all I think about. I miss her so so much. I hope you find peace and believe that God has a special place for our little ones.
I sometimes imagine Jezebel is at the groomers, and I have to pick her up soon. Its my way of coping. I pray you find your peace
