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Originally Posted by txshopper73  A question and a comment from me...
Question: Did he ask you to go with him?
Comment: I think it would be totally unfair to ask him to stay. This may be a chance that he'll never get again and I feel that you need to support him in his endeavors. |
I have not once asked him to stay, I too think that would be extremely unfair. The only input I will ever give is whatever he asks. If he asks for my opinion then I'll share it with him. I'm just trying to say that I'm not being naggy or clingy, or in anyway making him feel bad for wanting to go study somewhere else. He himself, with none of my influence, is undecided since he would have to give up a lot of comforts and so on. I'm really trying to stay out of his decision, however I have things of my own to decide. I try to put myself in his position, and I will respect whatever it is he decides to do.
I just wanted to know of long distance relationships can be successful. I'm not trying to fool myself, I know if it does come down to being apart, we will have to put extra effort into making it work. That's the message I'm getting from the lovely people that have shared their story with me.