I just read my own post and think I come off a bit harsh! No, I'm not an unreasonable person and can be flexible. I'm not incredibly rigid!
If the opportunity arises and requires me to be flexible I will be glad to change my plans.
However, I do think one of the beauties of love and relationships is that it is based on give and take. In the spirit of fairness, I do think we both (my boyfriend and I) will have to make sacrifices. I think that's the only way we'd both be happy with anything we do decide to do.
