I don't think you are oversharing, this is a legimate concern for you and a tough decision to have to make.
I still think your friend has to stop pressuring you to go with him or not. She is in a stage where she is soooo happy in her new marriage with her new child, she wants everyone around her to be that happy. Thats typical and common and I don't blame her but whats good for one is not necessarily good for the other. Try not to let her influence you too much, when outsiders put pressure on your relationship like that it has the potential to severly jeapordize the relationship.
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