Long Distance Relationships DO WORK ..... IF YOU want them to work ....
Sounds like a hard decision to make .....
Me and my Hubby have been separated for over 1.5 years at one time (I got to see him 14 days out of that) ... it is his Job (Military) and this will be VERY rough for you and him ..... but you will make it ..... or you just go with him to the other country and see how that works out ..... you can always go back home ....