I really appreciate everyone giving their take on this delicate situation. I told my husband so we too could discuss it.
Thankfully - my husband took the ball and went with it. He went down there and talked to him. I printed the images out and he took them down there for him to see. Gave them to him. I have them saved here.
My husband is 42 and this fella is 30ish. They fish together and my husband kind of unofficially mentors him - he looks up to my husband. So my husband going to him was PERFECT!
He seemed shameful in his actions and SAID he was going to tell his wife. My husband told him: You know how my girl is - if she thinks it - she says it. So - if you dont tell your girl chances are my girl will.
Scare tactic. Everyone that knows me knows - I call it like I see it. And with brutal child-like honesty. But I know when to open my mouth and speak - likewise - I know when to shut it and keep to myself. Most important!
So the jest of it is: He burned the pics while they were in the shed talking (understandable). He said he was going to tell her but this would be the end to them. But - it needed to be. From what he says - the marriage has simply lingered for quite some time now lacking any and all love - attention - affection - sexual relations. It was just easier to stay together - he said.
I felt I needed to report back and let you know the out come as I brought you into it. Thats about all I need to say. I hope they work it out. KIDS!
