We have an in-ground and our guys go in it with us occasionally and it's just fine. There are a lot of YT folks w/ pools who take their babies in the pools - they usually bathe them afterwards as the hair can get quite tangly. Chlorine on their skin is really no different from chlorine on our skin. As long as the pool is in a balanced state, it should be okay. Of course, it goes without saying that they should never be in there alone. (and I'm just saying that for posterity's sake, not for you - I know you know that
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