I agree that you should go to the one who is cheating and tell him what you know. Then tell him that you will give him x number of days/weeks to tell his spouse, or you will. Then just wait. My ex-husband of 18 years cheated on me, and after it was all over, I still don't know what I would have done if someone would have told me. However, I felt so betrayed. I am happily re-married, and I am glad that I don't have to think about that again. But I certainly would have also felt very stupid if I was the only one who didn't know, especially if my good friend did
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