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Originally Posted by megansmomma  This is exactly what I was thinking I would do if in this situation. I would probably also add that since you have knowledge of this fling, infidelity or whatever he would like to call it either he tells or you tell. Give him a set amount of time to make the decision. In the end I do think you will be losing your friends over his disregard for their marriage.
I can feel your pain~I am so sorry that you are in this position.  |
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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom Now that you have this information, I think you really need to ask yourself what it means if you now hide this information from your friend. I find that dishonest to the friendship, no matter what the result.
I would talk to the husband and give him an opportunity to act with integrity and tell her himself; and I'd let him know that otherwise, the truth would have to come from me - which would be much more painful for her (bc of how exposed she'd feel). |
Ann~I think we were both posting at the same time with just about the same advice. Only yours is worded much better.
