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Old 08-18-2008, 03:48 PM   #19
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Originally Posted by Mitzis Mom View Post
Well... since the cheating part is your friend I think it would be best if you talked to him about the whole thing. That's what friends do. Let him know that you feel bad about that and that you are in a difficult situation. Show him the pictures so he sees that he can't deny it. Let everything go from there.

IMO it's never a good idea to come between two fires and it is also not up to you to decide how serious this thing is and I, personally, would keep out of it, except of the talk with my friend.
This is exactly what I was thinking I would do if in this situation. I would probably also add that since you have knowledge of this fling, infidelity or whatever he would like to call it either he tells or you tell. Give him a set amount of time to make the decision. In the end I do think you will be losing your friends over his disregard for their marriage.

I can feel your pain~I am so sorry that you are in this position.
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