What's the old saying, "It's better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all." I think this can be applied to your friendship. If you truly love your friend I feel you would risk your friendship in order for her to know the truth of what's going on behind her back. "The not to have loved at all." In this situation would be that you not say anything to spare yourself being hurt in this situation which to me would say that you didn't love your friend enough to tell her the truth of what you know.
Either way you will find out if you have a true friendship with your friend. Her husband is a snake and she deserves to know the truth. Then let her decide what she wants to do. I would think he is sweating in his little booties knowing that you caught him in the act. What did he have to say for himself? Good luck with whatever decision you make. |