I think being a parent is the most thankless job in the WHOLE world. Im not a parent myself but I remember what I put mine through. Man oh man.... you would literally DIE to save your child and you get "I hate you" in response! Thats GOT to hurt quite a bit, and you are supposed to just 'take it' because they don't know. Im sorry your daughter hurt you. I know someday she'll realize it and you'll probably get a huge "im sorry I was awful to you when I was younger" I know I did that to my mom when I got older and DID understand!